friendsNovember 19, 2008 2:58 pm

_-Para saan nga ba talaga ang Kaibigan?-_

Mahirap talaga sabihin kung para saan ba ang mga kaibigan. Actually…may nabasa akong post sabi nya: “wala namang use ang kaibigan eh. pamparami lang sila ng tao sa buhay mo. pamparami ng numbers sa phonebook. pamparami ng matatanggap na regalo sa pasko. pamparami ng pangalan na kailangan mong kabisaduhin. pandagdag stress pagnag-away kayo. pandagdag gastos pag reregaluhan mo… and the list goes on.” Well, sabagay totoo nman yun, pero di naman sa walang use, we can’t really say that our friends have no use in our lives, isipin mo nga kng wala kang kaibigan, masasabi mo bang may halaga ang buhay mo without your friends? Masasabi ko talagang kulang ang buhay ko kng wala ang mga friends ko besides me. Nasasaktan nga ako pag isa sa mga kaibigan namin na mdali lng kaming e forget. Well tama nga ang linyang “people come and go”

pero imagine yourself without your friends? ang lungkot cguro nun noh?

ang sagot ko sa katanungang " Para saan nga ba talaga ang Kaibigan?"… as a friend, I make sure na laging masaya yung mga friend ko, kahit minsan napapalabas na akong corny, bahala na basta mapasaya ko lng sila. Nio matter what happen I’ll make sure that they are happy with and if they will leave me di nya ako makakalimutan. I see to it din na if kelangan nila ng help ko, ay nandyan parati para sa kanila. Kahit may ginagawa ako like nag-aaral for a quiz tomorrow, kung may problema yung mga friends ko, eh I’ll find time to comfort them and at the same time, not neglecting my studies. Makikinig din ako sa mga kwento at problems nila kahit sobrang haba. Wala akong paki kung gaano kahaba basta makikinig ako, masarap nga makinig ng kwento ng ibang buhay eh syempere rin life exchanging din nmn kami.  Hindi ko sila huhusgahan kahit nakikita ko ang mga imperfections nila. And most important, I will love them forever And I will never leave them for as long as they will not say that I will leave. I’ll stay for the rest of our lives. Ganun ko sila kamahal yan talaga ang tawag na KAIBIGAN!

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friends 2:22 pm

_-What are FRIENDS for?-_

What are friends for?

 

You choose your friends, not your family - and for many today, the former have become the most important people in their lives. But are you sure your friends really like you as much as you like them? And how do you know they will still be around in five years’ time?

 

Friendship has been given a special status in our society. It is contrasted with all those relationships over which we have so little control; the families we can’t change the neighbors who irritate us, the colleagues we have to put up with. Friends are thought of as the joyous, freely chosen part of our lives, and it’s assumed that those relationships are always pleasurable. If asked how you’re spending the weekend and you say staying in or seeing your family or your colleagues, people may think you’re a little sad. Say you’re seeing friends and there’s an assumption that you too are desirable, connected.

 

On one level, friendships are very simple. They are the bonds between people who enjoy one another’s company. But probe deeper and it’s evident that there is no consensus about what it means. Start talking to people about friendship and it becomes clear that while people value it and seek it, there is also much confusion, hesitancy and disappointment about friends in many people’s lives. Friendship is one of those areas full of hidden assumptions and unspoken rules. We only discover that our friendship doesn’t mean what we think it does when those assumptions clash.

 

There is no agreement about what friendship involves, or what to do if it goes sour. No one would dream of suggesting to a friend that they start seeing a friends’ guidance counselors to talk about the dynamics of their failing relationship. When things go wrong, we very rarely challenge our friends. That’s because friendship is often a delicate affair and we don’t want to tax it with too many demands. It’s more common to absorb the hurt, and retreat. After all, there is no contract. The terms are unwritten, and nobody ever makes them explicit.

 

Ask people about friendship and what’s startling is that they hold such a wide range of views, often accompanied by an absolute conviction that they are expressing an obvious truth. Some think it demands total loyalty; others that it carries no obligations at all. One man says long friendships have transformed his life, and been in some ways more important than his marriage; another thinks the great thing about friends is that you can always drop the old ones, because there are new ones around every corner. One woman says she would die for her friends; a younger woman says that all her friendships are ruthlessly practical, and designed to make her life easier in the here and now.

 

And what’s intriguing about those attitudes is that they aren’t obvious from the way people lead their lives. Everyone I talked to above has a large number of acquaintances and a social life. All but one assumes that most people think as they do.

 

Most of us feel a certain pride about our friends, pleased that they have chosen us, and that we have chosen them. We tend to believe that they reflect some important truths about who we are. Yet making friends isn’t an exercise in free choice, any more than buying a house is. We buy houses according to what we can afford, what happens to be on the market when we’re looking, and whether a capricious owner decides to accept our offer. Friendship is rather similar. We can only choose our friends from among the people we meet, in circumstances where making a friendly overture would be appropriate, and who show a reciprocal interest in knowing us.

 

 

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friendsSeptember 20, 2008 4:57 am

_-Invited to cha’s Birthday-_

These are the invited people to Charrisse Birthday:

 

Merchil

Lovelyn

Dariza

Jonilyn

Rissa Mae

Sharellyn

Jessa

Bernil

Paulique

Glenn

Joan

Dearly Anne Babe

Kakai

Mavis

Dong

Earl

Brylle

Didi

Venzal

Pet

Joseph

Dayday

Harris

Jopal

Kim

Delmo

Karlo

Abz

Hyzel

 

nagapangita pa mig place basta e update lng mo…chaka…heheh…

 

 

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friendsAugust 11, 2008 11:32 am

_-she’s sicked-_

well, lovelyn just celebrated her birthday last saturday evening she was so very busy that time and now she’s sicked. Im worried about her health now because she has fever and UTI. I really misses her. Hope that she will be ok again. so that she can go to school again and play volleyball..Partz, get well soon. I miss you.

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friendsAugust 6, 2008 2:34 am

_-My BF’s birthday!-_

well, tomorrow is the birthday of my BF(bestr friend) lovelyn running for 18. Now she is coming 18 i know she will become more matured and more successful in life. I love her so much because she was there in every moment in my life since we’ve met. Almost 3 years we’ve been togehter. We have so many moments that we quarell and many moments we laugh. And thats make us more stronger than ever. EWven though she wasnt show to everyone her affection but i know what she feels and what she want to tell to anyone who doesnt know her. Im happy that she will becoming a stronger person now. Partz, i wish you all the best in life and i’ll just here wherever you needed me. I love you so much. happy Birthday!

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